Parenting Tips – How to Discipline Children | Parents
Parenting Tips – How to Discipline Children | Parents
Learn how to discipline children with these easy tips from Parents Magazine! The key to disciplining children is to be consistent, follow through once you’ve set up rules, show respect, and remain calm. Here are our four parenting tips on how to discipline children. Tip one is to teach natural consequences. Choose a punishment that fits your child’s bad behavior. Tip two is to ignore certain attention-seeking behaviors. If your child doesn’t get a rise out of you, she will probably stop doing it. Tip three is to give choices to your child so they’re more willing to cooperate. Tip four is to use time-outs. Your child’s behavior won’t change immediately, but be patient and utilize these discipline techniques for effective parenting!
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I’d believe these negative comments if the video wasn’t mainly thumbed up
at least commit to disliking this video with actions, not just nasty typing
And… for tantrums or mild bad behavior, ignore the BEHAVIOR not the CHILD. Some tantrums are legitimate, if they are in pain or sick or hungry, or tired, those meltdowns require attention.
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Huh. I was expecting her to tell me to use paddles and mold them into what my opinion is, and hit them every time they’re not perfect to overwhelm them with tasks I, as an adult, can NOT do. But she was… Pretty rational, I’d say.
Is the woman serious???
Hi Doc…check our discipline tips video and let me know if we are on the same page.
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time out don’t work
This absolutely does not work, my wife raises our kids like this, 4 from age 17 to 2, none of them listen to her or respect her, they do whatever they wanna do, I come home for 4 days and start whipping asses for bad behavior and I have 0 problems with the kids. I whip there ass but I explain and make sure they understand what they did wrong.
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Can I go one comment section without the racist comments?! It’s either people bad mouthing immigrants or people talking or making the topic about race. Think about it ,how many kids that grow up in healthy environments at home become criminals, and how many that grow up in abusive homes become abusers and criminals, it’s not a race thing, it’s a cycle. I don’t know about you, but I want my kids to succeed, and I want a safe place for them to be all they can be. There’s a reason there’s child abuse laws now, it really messes people up. We are raising children to become strong Men and women. If you want to spank your child just know the consequences that may come with that. Don’t look down on a parent who chooses a different method of discipline. Don’t bring up race. Don’t say that’s what’s wrong with black people, or oh white people. we are all human first. I see a divide between races more than I have in my whole life. it’s sad.
Just a question – if a child is throwing spaghetti on the wall and the parent says "okay no more dinner then" if the child is throwing spaghetti on the wall because he/she is bored with eating and would rather do something else, wouldn’t the consequence of "no more dinner" result in the child later willingly throwing spaghetti on the wall just to get out of eating dinner?
Ok I may not be a parent but from what I have seen from my friends who are parents, this shit doesn’t work.
It’s fucking called spanking. I was spanked when I was a child and I believe I turned out pretty dam well and I’m gonna make sure my kids are well disciplined as well. I’m not going to beat them. I’m going to have them show respect and learn respect and if it has to be that way then so be it
Parents magazine needs to have discipline tips for teenagers. I’m sick of people thinking it’s fine to drop their teenagers off at unsupervised parties or at boy/girl sleepovers or thinking it’s ok for the kids to party and drink at home since it’s "under their watchful eye".
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Time out does NOT work. it creates a power struggle. Kids NEED power and attention, just like they need food clothes and shelter.. by setting rules and enforcing consequences to those rules, you are essentially giving them the power to make the best choice.
I’m a firm believer in whatever works for you and your child. However, I’m also very old school in my parenting style and I feel a spanking ( when it’s suited) never hurt anyone. Time out is a joke.
time out? this some white people shit. they needa good tap on the ass .
What happens when a child throws its fuckin spegget at the wall KNOCK THE EVER LIVING SHIT OUT OF THE FUCKER!!! THUS FLUFFY PARENTING BILLSHIT WONT DO ANYTHING!! FUCKIN SCARE THEM!!! HOLY SHIT JUST FUCK EM UP
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Good tips
Thank you for sharing this information. It is a nice video.
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good one
Many of these ideas and techniques could work, but are very outdated.These positive parenting strategies have been taught for nearly a century now. Great choices compared to corporal punishment, but if you had a choice, would you like to listen to your favorite music on outdated technology – LP records, or would you choose cutting edge technology – iPod? Exactly!
I too would choose the iPod. Let me show you what I mean by each of her examples. Then you can decide for yourself – LP Record or iPod.
LP Record – Tip #1 – Child throws food on wall. She is excused from the table..and will remember not to play with food next time (LP Record).
iPod Tip #1 – Show your child how to ask to be excused from the table when done or full, before they start eating. This way the food will stay on the plate.
LP Record – Tip #2 – Ignore what you don’t like when they want your attention, or set a timer when you are available.
iPod – Tip #2 – Teach your child what they can do, or how you would like them to get your attention, before hand. This way if the child does want your attention, they are empowered to make it happen.
LP Record – Tip #3 – She has this one spot on. Give parent approved choices, so the children can make real life decision, by the age of 18.
LP Record Tip #4 – Giving Time outs are like listening to a skipping record. Long-term it will drive you nuts.
iPod – Tip #4 – Empower your child, by incorporating the universal truth of cause & effect. Show your child what to do. "If you do (this) _______ then (this) _________ will happen. When you do (that) ________ then (that) __________ will happen." Either way, the child will step more into their power of creation. They make the results, or effect, happen. There is no punishment inflicted onto the child by you, the parent.
So what is better for you when you parent? Outdated techniques, or cutting edge techniques? Once you know them both, you can have the right to choose.
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She would be cleaning that food off the wall!
I’ve read through tons of comments here and I don’t think any of the parents agree with any of these tips. Including me. maybe half of one…
Help me, I am a Dad with bad anger issues. I have a 4 year old son and I hit him all the time when I get angry, I can not stop my self. I grew up where my parents would hit me and I know that taught me well. I’m afraid that he will start being violent towards other kids because of me. what should I do, my girlfriend is really concerned about leaving him alone with me…
Why am I watching this I’m not a mom…
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BEAT THAT ASS!!
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as of now I am thinking between leaving our house with my daughter or staying with my 2 kiddos here with my husband. I love my husband and I know he also loves me,but my problem is that he doesn’t treat our daughter nicely. he easily get angry with her. he do not treat our kids the same.
My son thinks these are joke iiv tryed time outs all I got was hit
If my kid threw their spaghetti at the wall, for Pete’s sake, I would scrape it off the wall and make em eat it after a warm ass whoopin… screw this calm and collected crap, they need to know what pisses you off and what doesn’t… Like if you agree!
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If your kid throws their spaghetti at the wall they are done and will know better next time.
What? That makes no sense.
These are great tips. I have a parenting website myself and these are some things I live by.
Timeouts work. It’s Cool down time in a separate area. I have never spanked my kids, and have never had to. Now that the children are older, grounding, and losing access to electronics works as well 🙂
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Great Video, a lot of important knowledge , thanks for making this video
Um no if my kid throws they spaghetti they gettin they ass whooped