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Thank you for this! I admire you and am grateful that you’re sharing with us.
Another great video! Do you have any book recommendations?x
Hi, I love this and do try so hard to be this parent, what I’d like to know if your husband does the same and what would you say/ do if they don’t have the same parent style.. also could to do some tips for this specifically for toddlers, I’ve got a three year old ( just turned) and I’m trying to explain to her and she says sorry mama, which then breaks my heart but I don’t think she really knows why she’s saying sorry and then carries on or does that behavior again… I also have a four month old so I know I’ve got mum guilt if not spending all my time with her now I have her brother too.. which I think has been tough in her and of course on lockdown everything seems to be amplified so anything can set her off, she defo rules are house 🤣🤦🏼♀️ any help? X
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Oh thank you thank you SJ! I really appreciated watching this as a little reminder of all the things that we as loving parents want to be doing for a children, but in our sometimes frazzled cabin fevered lockdown state we forget! I really identified with you when you mentioned playing and laughing is also healing- so so true. Thank you as ever for the positive vibes and perspective. Best wishes to you and your lovely family at this surreal time. Xx
Thanks so much!, I needed this.
I love this method so much!!! I can only DREAM of raising my children exactly like this, I’ll be coming back to your channel in about ten years time when I have my own!
Totally agree with you! Thank you for sharing!
My husband and I try so hard to stick to positive discipline. Its so so difficult but it definitely pays off x x x
I’m sure these videos have made me better parent. I owe so much to you and your help! Xx
Whew lately I say some weird things to my toddler. I know it’s stupid and I don’t even know why I do it. It’s hard to be the person you expect yourself to be, when under pressure!
I get so fed up about being angry and mad. We have harder phases that make me feel so inadequate as a parent. Sometime durig one of these phases I stopped my spiral whenever we where gettig there again, breathed, said my daughters name loudly, and then looked her in her eyes and told her ‘I love you!’. No idea why I did that either but it has become our thing whever we are getting into a power srruggle we stop and tell eachother that we love eachother. (She started doing it to me very quickly, which I didn’t intend to provoke)
I’d love to know some specific skills you use with a toddler.
Thanks for the positivity videos , we all needed this from time to time. Also love your shirt. You look beautiful
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Love this video ❤ this is the way I’m trying to raise my children too. Did you read Jesper Juul? He’s written a lot of books on this. One of my fave authors on this topic is Nicola Schmidt, a German author but idk if any of her books have been translated into English.
unconditional is the word you’re looking for! <3 love you so much
Thanks, this is a great video.
I love Daniel Tiger and watch it with my child. It teaches both the 3yo and 30yos at one go.
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I love the way you explain each aspect in detail. It’s really helpful. We all need help with parenting. Thank you!
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Thanks for your videos. Always trying to act differently after watching them. But sometimes I just don’t know how to respond… For example "I won’t let you stay up late because you need rest" my toddler "but I don’t want, turns and continues playing" so what’s next? Do you have any videos with samples of the hard situations like this?
Thank you!!
I’m finding that I don’t want to play/be with my children all day and I feel awful for it. Mornings are our best time for learning but every day the level of enthusiasm changes! My two are 5 and 9, and during lockdown they’ve loved Lego, colouring and making up stories together. Everything is an opportunity to learn, not just school work…and this time together is priceless despite being stressful.
I really take so much value out of these videos. Thankyou so much x
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I am really interested in this style of parenting, I’m about to have a little boy (in 6ish days actually) I’m curious how you apply these to a very young child?
This is really helpful but how would you do this with a 23 month old who super hormonal!? She’s too young to understand explanations and consequences
I love your parenting style. Gentle parenting/positive parenting is something I strive towards as it really resonates with me. Your videos are very helpful. Thank you 💕
I have a question. So you don’t ever punish your child when they do something bad out of anger? I don’t have kids, but in my mind wouldn’t that teach the child that lashing out in anger is okay? Just because a child is angry at you is doesn’t give them the right to be disrespectful, aggressive, or mean with their words. I’m not trying to criticize, I’m just wondering how do you teach emotional control in this style of parenting?
Edit: I think this style of parenting is very loving and sweet. I’m just wondering how do you handle that particular situation.
Thanks! This aligns a lot with what I wish for us
Really needed this 3.5 years ago! This is going to help me hugely thank you
this is amazing 🥺 i am definitely taking up this styling of parenting once i have children. i would like to ask if you have any books to recommend to read up on gentle parenting?
Thank you . I don’t want to be the hateful mom anymore. My son (4yo) is SO headstrong and set in his ways. He’s very stubborn. I know these traits will get him far in life. But at the moment, it’s very hard to deal with and I get very frustrated (as does he). I want to learn to do better. I want to learn to handle MY emotions better so I can teach my babies how to handle theirs. I get upset but they aren’t allowed to ? That’s not fair. I appreciate this video.
Great video SJ thanks soo much found it very helpful 😊
How do you cope if you adopt this style.but grandparents or close friends perhaps don’t? Does this confuse or cause difficult behaviours? Is this something you’ve come across x
So I’m guessing this is the right Christian way to parent?
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